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I realized I don't really care how people refer to me, it feels a bit weird if it's not a he/she/they, I feel the same way for all of them like they can refer to me, does that mean I fall under the gender spectrum? or imply it? what other things could lead to me finding a label that describes me if I fall under the spectrum. I mean, I am still thinking about it, and I might be or might not be, but i am kind of lost so I just want to mainly focus on the fact I am comfertable with any pronouns to give me some basic understanding. So id like to hear your thoughts on using any/all pronouns and transness.

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[–] Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

If you're considering using different pronouns that's not exactly cis is it?

Can we please not go around assuming someone else's gender due to presentation? You have a history of violating the Egg prime directive and invalidating other people and you need to stop.