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[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 15 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (7 children)

I understand why you're making this suggestion and appreciate the sentiment. Unfortunately I don't register online interactions as full social interactions like some other people. It's why I found social media platforms based on real world identities obtuse and vapid. I really need a place I can goto that doesn't cost money, people know who I am, those people are happy I'm around, I'm happy they're around, and I'm comfortable there. Unfortunately what I described is "a place I belong to" and I'm not going to get that in America.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago (6 children)

You still might be able to.

DnD is basically free and always desperate for players and have game meetups in all types of places

If you're less nerdy and more active then you're right at the cusp of 40+ rec leagues. Aka "beer league" sports.

Hell, I have a buddy that joined a bowling team despite not knowing how to bowl and immediately went to a tourney in Vegas.

But you just said this:

the most prosperous I’ve ever been in my life

Right before:

place I can goto that doesn’t cost money

So I'm a little confused why you can't spare any money to fufil a basic human need that you're saying is unfulfilled and causing you issues.

Best of luck though, and I do legitimately wish I could have been more helpful

[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago (5 children)

It's not about a lack of funds per se. I find spending money undermines any legitimacy for an activity, "best things in life are free". Might be the same reason I don't like amusement parks. This might be a psychological hold over from years living in poverty.

[–] Pandemanium@lemm.ee 2 points 7 months ago

Find a hiking group or partner then. It's free, you'll get a little exercise, and it doesn't have to be much of a commitment.

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