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[–] Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago (18 children)

"I was with Dan the other day. They forgot their keys at home. They said they had to go back to get them."

Literally not hard at all?

[–] rah@feddit.uk -4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (17 children)

"I was with Dan (they/them) and Steve the other day. They hadn't brought a poster they needed and went back to the car to get it."

This demonstrates the semantic problem with using "they" as a pronoun: it isn't clear who went back to the car, (1) just Dan or (2) both Dan and Steve. Nor is it clear who needed the poster and who hadn't brought it.

[–] Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago (3 children)

You're going out of your way to create a problem that doesn't exist. Just Dan? Say Dan went back to the car. Both Dan and Steve? Say they both went back to the car.

If you just don't respect people's identity then admit you're bigoted instead of hiding behind faulty logic.

[–] rah@feddit.uk -1 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

You're going out of your way to create a problem that doesn't exist.

The problem does exist, that's why you're making suggestions about how to work around the problem. I've been confused before by people using "they" as a pronoun in exactly this sense. I'm not going out of my way to create a problem, it's a problem that I've experienced IRL. Please don't try to invalidate my experience.

If you just don't respect people's identity then admit you're bigoted instead of hiding behind faulty logic.

You're jump to conclusions.

[–] Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

You're jump to conclusions

Lol. Alright buddy, I'm done here.

[–] rah@feddit.uk 1 points 8 months ago

You're not going to bother to point out the fault in my logic?

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