TBH, I'm also a combo of pissed-off and disappointed by how relatively few Redditors put their "fuck spez" energy in to trying to help Lemmy grow, instead seeming to expect it to be a ready-made substitute for Reddit, prone to tantrums / bitchiness when they encountered minor difficulties. And I'm also disappointed by the actual Lemmings dedicated enough to stay, yet still seem completely content to sit on their arses, not contribute much, and take casual pot-shots at stuff that wasn't 'up to standard.' Take a recent post of mine, for example: (yes it's my pity-party, and I'll cry if I want to, lol)

https://lemm.ee/post/48617161

As the founder of the community and main content creator, I must say the downvotes hurt on that one! I was also getting accused of going off-topic (I wasn't) and just 'pushing a button to create the content' (it was more like the reverse).

So in some ways I've created a situation in which my users (kinda joking here, kinda not) are bloodsucking parasites who don't care about my efforts if and only unless they happen to fancy it. Really, that's perfectly fine with me up until they swarmed on the downvote button.

But whadya gonna do, right? I can't just assume peoples' reactions, and I'm not here to tell others what to do. So in the end, I wound up sulking for a week, then getting back to content creation, and I feel like that's pretty reasonable in the end. Win-win, so to speak. I guess. Maybe..?

The real problem of course is that I don't know how much longer I'm going to be around (significant health issues, and now just living in the USA during the coming administration), and I'd very much like to get our sublemmy running better with user-generated content before I check out.

Hroom, hroom, hroom, as Treebeard might say...

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 1 points 8 months ago

Most people, it would seem, are children. Or at least act like it, unable (or unwilling) to see past the nose on their own face.

Something like half of my posts have more downvotes than upvotes, and I have earned a distinction of having some of the most heavily-downvoted posts in some communities histories (oops, that's no longer true, um... yay?). Then I'll frequently have the highest-upvoted comment (or even more often 2nd or maybe 3rd, among very large posts even) within very many posts. Go figure. Either way I'm just being me, seeing what I see and liking what I like, and sharing it occasionally if I have an inkling of a thought that others might enjoy it (often I'm wrong:-).

So people are fickle, especially en mass. I can't say to ignore them bc you do as you please, but I can say do your art for YOU. People a decade from now may enjoy it, but that too will be irrelevant, if you are finding fulfillment in the doing.:-)

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