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[–] JustZ@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

She's referring to overly emotional men, who need extra attention; guys who can't handle failure or rejection, who have a bad day at work and then can't help around the house at all at night and who expect their partner to take care of them, regardless of how their partner's day went. I know the type of dude she's talking about and I wouldn't want my daughter to bring one home. Dude needs a mother not a partner.

[–] Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Nope this is a list of all the men available, like she said. She's painting all emotional men with the same brush. There are good men and bad men in each of those categories she listed, but she thinks we're all bad.

So I cry and need a hug sometimes? Emotional labor. I can describe the full range of emotions I feel to a partner and deal with them in a healthy way? Gross.

[–] JustZ@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You have a victim mentality. You are looking for this stuff and you're finding it. The post does not say that.

"As we seek so shall we find."

[–] Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I know who I am. I'm just reading what she said. That's the dating pool.

Let me ask you this:

How could a decent man possibly respond to a post like that without being lumped into it, like you just did to me?