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Why does he have to wait 60 seconds?
I don't know if it's the same with autism, but I have read about and experienced something that impacts people with ADHD called demand avoidance, where asking someone to come help with a task or complete a task right now really fucks me up. It completely interrupts the flow of what I'm in the middle of, and I also can feel really frustrated about the demand for no good reason.
Giving me a timer, even a short one, gives me time to mentally transition at my own pace. I assume for a "normal" person its easy to just say "yeah, in a minute", but demand avoidance comes with a pretty strong emotional reaction (frustration, anger, guilt) that is absolutely irrational, but can't be helped.
Like I said, no idea if this is a thing with autism and I don't feel like researching it. Maybe for people with autism is more about routine and planning but idk
Edit: realised after I wrote this response that there is a good chance you're just joking about the literal interpretation of the phrasing used in the comic, and that you know all this already, but I'm leaving it up for posterity.
yeah, "WITHin a minute".