Image: Cartoon drawing of two people sitting on and looking out of opposites of a bus. The one on the left is sad looking at a hillside. They are labeled, "Someone who think I have beef with them." The person on the right is happy and looking at a beautiful view. They are labeled, "My autistic ass who has no idea what I said was offensive."
Oof had a coworker who would say the most brutal rude things and just go about his business not understanding what just happened. Tried to explain and realized he truly did not get it so I went the other route and warned new people to just take it easy with little homie as he will destroy you but he doesn't mean anything by it.