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The gender I want to be is "Majestic Unicorn of unclear gender/sex, but decidedly statuesque in bearing"

You can see how it would be difficult for me to transition in any meaningful way

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[–] boogetyboo@aussie.zone 17 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I've wondered this as a ciswoman who is hetero and far as I'm aware, neuro typical.

Growing up I had all kinds of identity questions and it's taken me a long time to both understand who I am and what I want for myself; to make peace with a few things about my personality etc.

I wonder if the struggles of trans/queer/ND people to find their identity delay those additional questions? Or are they layered on top as well?

No real point, just a musing I've had. Being a human is hard even when you're already ticking boxes that society says you should.

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 7 points 1 year ago

To me, my gender/identity related realisations are all strongly tied to discovering what my personality was underneath all the trauma debris, idk.

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