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I tend to like the young folk and identify with them way more than people my age, not in a creepy way I hope. Probably because I don't have kids and am terminally online. I'm optimistic about everything. I don't think there's anything about younger people I fundamentally don't understand.
I don't get sending huge amounts of money to streamers, but I also don't have huge piles of money to throw around.
I actually like how younger people are going more minimalist in their fashion taste. Lots of reappropriation of stereotypical work clothes, like Dickies pants, overalls, stuff like that. That's a neat trend I've noticed.
Soapbox moment for Frank;
Folks should ID with younger people and it is a huge problem that society has stigmatized healthy relationships between adults and young people or children. Kids need mentors and positive adult role models. They need support from adults who understand what they've been through and can offer support and perspective. Kids need adults in their lives and it is a problem that having any kind of relationship with a young person outside your immediate family is almost inevitably viewed as predatory or exploitative.
Skinhead (real skins, not boneheads) 3.0 or 4.0. I dig it.
Listening to people younger than yourself also keeps you grounded in the present. Too many people get stuck in the past, or get isolated from wider society. I really don't want to become a detached old person, that's one of my greatest fear. I don't ever want to have the feeling that time has passed me by and I'll never understand the world.
I haven't had that feeling so far, thankfully. You're right about younger people needing mentors and stuff, I hadn't seen it much from that angle. I think older people need to listen to younger folk as well, to keep them grounded in reality. Younger people aren't aliens out to ruin society and they're not naive confused toddlers either. They're people sharing the present and we don't need to have such a generational gulf or apprehension if we're all on Earth and alive at the same time.
Word. Ideally mentoring would be listening to problems kids are having and offering your experience and knowledge as a resource they can use to find solutions for those problems, rather than trying to tell them what to do with your withered Millenial brain.