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Asking for a friend. They aren't transgender but also aren't men.

Also, just wanted to get out of the way that my name isn't Patrick nor is it Patrick Star, as anyone who has watched Spongebob would know (Spongebob is my comfort show).

Sorry last one didn't post!

July is disability pride month. You don't see it advertised many places, despite us being a massive part of the population!

China women-only bar names drinks after inspiring women, including ex-domestic abuse victim

‘Auntie’ who suffered violence at hands of ex-husband works her way up from cleaner to bartender, is honoured for celebrated journey

WOMEN ONLY COMMUNITY MEN PLEASE DO NOT COMMENT

Managed your child's tantrum successfully? Done something clever at work? Fantastic craft successfully? Whatever it is we want to know!

What's something you wish you'd been told, or had been emphasised more?

Attraction is a very personal thing, what works for someone won't work for someone else. What makes someone attractive to you?

Do you feel one group is more emotional? And is the belief that women are more emotional spread by men?

I'll start with:

• Boss Bitch - Doja Cat
• Goddess - Krewella and NERVO
• You Should See Me in a Crown - Billie Eilish
• Beneath my Throne - Nina Tribus
• When I Rule the World - LIZ

We're often caregivers, rescuers, and support others. Who here has got stuck trying to fix someone?

Some people prefer really formal places, with clear corporate policies and procedures. Other people like more laid back, make it up as you go along. Some like pressurised, some don't. What culture do you like?

So, long story short: I've been a musician for pretty much all my life. After a massive hearing loss, I picked up drums about a year ago and I've had so many great teachers myself. Now the local music school asked me if I could teach drums to their kids. They lost their former teacher due to old age.

I have rarely dealt with children. Sure, I was a tutor for some when it comes down to languages, but teaching music? That is so new to me and I'm actually afraid.

I am all gauntles right now negotiating the deal here: I want espescially girls to learn a new intrument. They must be bored out of themselves just playing the flute, organ and piano.

So, my approach is probably this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VL5oBbriJuQ

:D

Any hints or tips you can give me? Please?

I'm a 38 years old lesbian with basically no clue whatsoever when it comes down to dealing with kids... ^^

EDIT: I'm afraid the girls want me to play pop music on the drums, and I get easily bored by that.

Watch one of my drumming teachers.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHl_gsd0OR0

XD