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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/RecoverinCandyAddict on 2025-07-30 22:44:12+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Rachel_Silver on 2025-07-30 12:35:50+00:00.

They might not care about you as a person, but they'll want to look like they do.

I was getting the runaround from the state Department of Transportation about getting a handicapped parking placard. I went to the office of the state representative for my district, and she made that shit happen. I received my placard in the mail within two weeks.

When I lived in Philly, my girlfriend got a bullshit parking ticket. She was parked directly under a sign that said she could park there, so she went to contest it. The woman at the parking authority wouldn't look at her pictures. At that point, she would have had to fight it in court, and would cost her more in missed work than just paying the fine.

I figured out who our city council rep was, and I called his office. He had someone on his staff whose sole job was dealing with complaints about bullshit tickets, and my girlfriend quickly received a letter from the parking authority telling her she had been found not liable. They even apologized for the error.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/PhoenixRisen95 on 2025-07-30 11:01:41+00:00.

I have OCD and anxiety disorder. One of the coping techniques I learnt was journalling. But sometimes I have such a busy day that I don't have the "time" for it and when is bedtime, there is so much noise in my mind.

Recently I started to do a mental journal about my day, counting my blessings or challenging my OCD. Sometimes I feel ashamed of my illness, I note that down as well.

That helps me to feel more relaxed and "digest" the day, instead of ruminating.

So, mental journal before bedtime. When I realise, I am waking up next morning.

Have you ever tried "mentally journalling"? Share with me your thoughts. Please be kind !

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/wxgi123 on 2025-07-30 08:41:49+00:00.

Bonus tip, if you have planes with a short connection time, you have to assume your checked bag won't make it with you and will be delayed by a day or two. Pack essentials in your backpack and carry-on.

Just some tips from many years of flying.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/ImportanceForeign on 2025-07-30 09:27:13+00:00.

My partner has just come out of hospital after what has been a stressful couple of days. Both of us are exhausted as we've had very little sleep.

We've had a lot of people come to visit to see that my partner is okay and that has involved a lot of extra hosting work. Not just for me, but for my partner too.

So here are some tips to be a considerate guest:

• Be mindful of when you're calling a recovering person. They might be resting and your call might wake them up.
• Ask them if they feel like having guests.
• Ask for permission before bringing children or pets
• Let the hosts know how long you intend to stay for - it's best if these visits are kept short as the recovering person will need to focus on rest
• Offer to bring food/refreshments
• Offer to help out with chores/clean up after yourself

Edit: I feel like this is common sense, but I was just surprised by how much this has happened in the period of a few days.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/reznats on 2025-07-30 02:18:54+00:00.

I've found myself in this dilemma quite often. A good friend starts a business selling homemade chili sauce, self-published comic books, stickers, pickles, etc. I really wanna support them but if I'm being honest, sometimes what they are selling aren't really my cup of tea.

So one day, instead of forcing myself to buy something I won't use or enjoy, I started buying their product or service and gifting it my other friend/family who would love them.

I've done this a few times, and it's a win-win situation all around. Seriously, everyone benefits:

1. My entrepreneur friend gets a sale
2. My other friend gets a gift they like or even love
3. I got double wins, the satisfaction of helping a friend chase their dream and making another friend's day. And all without ending up with stuff I won't use or need.
4. As I think of it, my friend's business also wins, as I usually introduce them to each other and one becomes a potential customers for the other.

So that's like, five wins with one sale? I'll take that deal any day.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Spare_Act6202 on 2025-07-29 22:29:39+00:00.

A lot of bad choices happen because we act in the heat of the moment.

Quitting a job in anger. Sending a text you can’t unsend. Ending a friendship over one bad day.

Here’s the rule:

If you wouldn’t make that choice on a calm, well-rested day… don’t make it right now.

When emotions are high:

• Sleep on it.
• Go for a walk.
• Talk it out with someone you trust.
• Give yourself at least 24 hours.

You’ll be shocked how different things look after you’ve cooled down.

Most of the time, the “crisis” isn’t as big as it feels in the moment and if it is big, you’ll still make a better call with a clear head.

Remember: Pause is power.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/FriedSmegma on 2025-07-29 19:41:10+00:00.

Bonus points because it’s now a portable chocolate milk bottle since it has a lid. Squirting the chocolate milk straight into your mouth is heaven, you feel like a kid again.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Either-Judgment231 on 2025-07-29 00:07:42+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Spare_Act6202 on 2025-07-28 22:49:13+00:00.

One of the simplest ways to strengthen relationships with friends, partners, coworkers, or family is by actively celebrating their wins with them.

It doesn’t matter if you think it’s a big deal. If they’re excited, let them be excited. Respond with energy, ask follow-up questions, and stay present in the moment.

– Friend got a new job? “That’s amazing! What’s the new role like?”

– Sibling finally finished a project? “Hell yeah! You’ve been grinding on that forever, congrats.”

– Coworker got praised by a manager? “That’s awesome, you totally earned it!”

People remember who made them feel supported when they were happy just as much as when they were down. Showing genuine enthusiasm for their joy builds trust, connection, and deeper bonds.

Be the person who celebrates people not the one who shrugs it off.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Razer531 on 2025-07-29 08:32:58+00:00.

Like a game, or a tv show or whatever that will be released in X amount of months. Because that what you’re excited about feels like it takes forever to come. So think of it once a day.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/ayanboss007 on 2025-07-29 12:55:11+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/two28fl on 2025-07-29 10:28:11+00:00.

1. How to jumpstart a car - correctly & safely.
2. How to change a flat tire - in under 5 minutes on side of a highway.
3. General car maintenance - how/when to check tire pressure, tread depth, topping off fluids, changing wiper blades & installing new bulbs.
4. Recognizing key warning lights (e.g., check engine, oil pressure, battery) & Knowing when to pull over immediately or seek a mechanic based on the light.
5. Basics of car insurance (e.g., liability, collision) and why it’s required

BONUS - how to handle being stopped by police. Staying calm, keeping hands visible, and providing documents respectfully. & Understanding rights during a traffic stop.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/EducationalPilot1325 on 2025-07-29 07:15:49+00:00.

Anticipatory Anxiety is a psychological concept where our brains obsessively rehearse negative scenarios that haven't happened, or likely never will.

For example, you might feel like your colleagues subtly dislike you, fear being fired, believe you won't get an opportunity, or assume people think you're incompetent.

The most damaging thing is that Anticipatory Anxiety often pushes us into real negative behaviors. This could be emotional outbursts, losing control, or feeling extremely panicked and insecure, making every day exhausting.

Once you fall into the trap of Anticipatory Anxiety thinking, it can truly become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

But the truth of life is that 99% of the things you worry about will not happen. Of the 99% that do happen are not that serious. And for the 99% that are serious, you will be able to handle them, even grow from them.

So, don't let your mind constantly dwell on unhappened negatives, dragging you into deeper issues like family of origin problems, lack of love, or relationship problems. This line of thinking can make you feel profoundly flawed and pain.

You just need to stop!

Consciously interrupt Anticipatory Anxiety. These long-term negative thought patterns may have become a habit, but you can choose to shift your mindset towards optimism.

Then you will find: Life is as beautiful as you imagine and as you wish.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/May___________ on 2025-07-29 06:41:56+00:00.

I know I’m probably too young to give advice but it’s 12 pm and here I am. You know sometimes when you try starting something, learning or changing yourself, and you just feel like it’s too late? Well, usually it isn’t, for some reason, we just feel this way. I thought I was too old to start fencing at 12, too late for soccer at 9, too late for painting at 11, and now too late for volleyball and track at 14. Looking back, I wish I had just started, I would’ve made so much progress. But all the time, I hear people wishing they started in their teen years, then wishing they started in their twenties, then thirties, then forties, then wishing they had just started at all. Sometimes, it is too late, but most likely you just feel like that because of unrealistic expectations. I know it’s cliche, but stop comparing yourself to others around you or letting one failure get in the way of progress, just start. Even a little adds up over time, even if it’s not much.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/zombre3000 on 2025-07-29 05:37:45+00:00.

When someone especially a younger person or a peer asks you a question, instead of jumping straight to the solution, walk them through how you figured it out whether it's Googling the right keywords, checking reliable sources, or breaking the problem into steps. Over time, they'll start doing it on their own. This habit builds critical thinking and self-sufficiency, which are massive advantages in work, school, and life in general.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/RAD_ley on 2025-07-29 03:11:12+00:00.

The most dreaded interview question, “What’s your greatest weakness?” can be hard to answer. No one would believe you if you say you’re the perfect person with no flaws. At the same time, listing off your shortfalls isn’t great either when you’re trying to convince someone to hire you. So an easy way to provide honesty without damaging your image is to bring the conversation back to what you are good at and including the overlooked negatives of that characteristic. Along with emphasizing your best skills, you can also show that you are aware of your blind spots.

Examples:

Best quality: “I’m a perfectionist and pay attention to fine details.” Weakness: “I get so caught up in making projects perfect, I sometimes spend more time than typical to assure a higher quality result.”

Best quality: “I self-initiate and am always looking for extra tasks to take on.” Weakness: “I’m a very eager worker and enjoy new responsibilities, but can forget to ask for help if I take on more than what I can manage alone.”

Best quality: “I’ve got 15 years of transferable experience.” Weakness: “I try not to let my seniority in this field narrow my vision of how things can change and be improved.”

Bonus LPT: this isn’t just for job interviews. If you’re looking for ways to self-improve, take some time to consider how you might actually be holding yourself back if you’re only improving the parts of yourself that you like without balancing its counter parts.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/ClaireClover on 2025-07-28 16:49:41+00:00.

For US-based flights, skip the useless airline customer service and go straight to the Department of Transportation (DOT) complaint form. I’ve had a 100% success rate in getting the compensation I was entitled to using this method (although it typically takes 8 weeks). The link to file a consumer complaint is listed at the end of the following page:

https://www.transportation.gov/individuals/aviation-consumer-protection/refunds

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/DigIndependent7488 on 2025-07-28 16:06:38+00:00.

I’ve always found it a bit awkward when I’m at an event or meeting new people and it comes time to exchange contact info. Like, I either end up fumbling with my phone, trying to share contact and end up typing names into LinkedIn, or awkwardly try to spell out my email while the other person is struggling to hear it over so much background disturbance.

A while back, I tried something different, I set up a digital contact card that people can open just by scanning a QR code or tapping their phone. It took like 10 minutes to set up, and now whenever I meet someone, I can just let them scan it and they get everything at once my number, email, LinkedIn, whatever I choose to share. A lifesaver literally. It’s honestly made things so much easier. No typing needed. No confusion. No wait, let me find you. Just a quick tap and done.

As someone who’s more on the introverted side, I’ve found it really helpful, not just for making the process smoother but also for helping me feel a little more prepared and confident during social interactions.

Also, weirdly enough, people actually remember me more now because they’re like, Oh that was cool, how did you do that? It’s a small thing, but if you ever feel awkward or anxious about networking or even just casually exchanging info, this made a big difference for me. Worth trying. Just thought I’d share in case anyone else finds that part of social interactions a bit stressful, this made it way easier for me.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Chimerain on 2025-07-28 05:43:33+00:00.

Do you ever notice how when you take a picture of someone in front of something scenic like Mt. Rushmore, the background always ends up looking much further away than in real life? That's because the default camera on most phones is a wide angle lens that allows for a wider viewing angle for group photos, with the trade-off being the focal length makes background imagery appear further away than it actually is; Instead, try switching to your phone's telephoto lens manually, zoom out as much as possible, and have the camera person stand much further away (usually 10+ feet). Your background will appear much closer to the subject, and as an added bonus, they will appear skinnier as well!

Please note though, that this doesn't work well for large group shots where a wide viewing angle is an absolute necessity; You'll need to stick to the default lense for that.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/Sg0102 on 2025-07-28 02:38:59+00:00.

Ever get interrupted and then forget where you left off? Before stepping away, say out loud what you were doing “I was adding a formula to this spreadsheet, then going to check column B.” It’s like leaving a bookmark for your brain much easier to resume where you stopped.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/WhiskeyDreamer28 on 2025-07-27 22:43:15+00:00.

Have you ever had someone at your place of work ask you to buy something from their kid’s school fundraiser?

Tell them that you’ll buy it if their kid calls you after work and sells it to you themselves. I’ve done this multiple times and only one kid has called me.

Either you save money, or you help the kid build a sense of independence. Win win!

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/ayanboss007 on 2025-07-27 16:28:52+00:00.

We love giving advice, but sometimes we unconsciously project our own bias, pride, or privilege. A good self-check is this:

“If I were in their shoes — same background, same problems — would this advice truly help me?”

This quick reflection removes arrogance, increases empathy, and leads to more actionable, respectful help. It’s the difference between advice that uplifts vs. advice that judges.

People don’t need lectures. They need understanding and realistic support.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/ZaneStutt on 2025-07-27 16:02:33+00:00.

Type A personalities push hard and rarely slow down, which makes them prone to stress and exhaustion. To prevent burnout, actually put short breaks and downtime on your calendar, just like you would for an important meeting.

For example: block off 15 minutes after back-to-back calls to stretch, grab water, or just step outside. Treat it as non-negotiable.

Those small resets help you perform better and protect your health long-term.

— Update: I focused on high achievers here because they tend to struggle the most with burnout, but honestly, these tips apply to anyone who pushes themselves hard at times. We all need reminders to pause and recharge.

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The original was posted on /r/lifeprotips by /u/therealawwyeah on 2025-07-27 15:50:12+00:00.

On my first drive of the day, I make sure that the inside of my car is as quiet as possible for the first few minutes of my ride. This way, I can hear any weird noises that my car might emit that are not familiar and might tip me off to a mechanical issue.